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Learning and Leading in Phi Mu

Across the nation, and across generations, individual Phi Mu chapters have impacted the lives of women, particularly during their college years. My own chapter has introduced me to my lifelong best friends and given me opportunities to be a leader within our group as well as on campus. Beyond this support system that I found in Phi Mu at the University of Tennessee, I have also experienced the support of our national fraternity by working with Phi Mu Foundation.

This past school year, I served on the Foundation’s Collegiate Leadership Council. Alongside Phi Mu women from different chapters, I learned more about Phi Mu Foundation’s mission and history as the philanthropic branch of the fraternity. Serving on this board granted me the opportunity to work with the Foundation staff during the 2018 National Convention in Las Vegas. Here, I met women from a variety of stages in life: fellow collegians, newly graduated alumnae, and even a woman honored as the Phi Mu who has attended the most national conventions over the past four or so decades. Regardless of age, these women had so much to share about their lives and experience through Phi Mu.

My mentor through the Collegiate Leadership Council, Delicia Arnold, serves on the Foundation Board of Trustees. Delicia is a passionate, hard-working, and dedicated wife, mother, and attorney. She shows a commitment to excellence by devoting her time to an organization that has done so much for its members on top of these demanding roles. Her passion for giving back to Phi Mu is clearly evident through her generous support as a compassionate and inspiring mentor.

At this point in my life, I have personally benefitted from receiving a scholarship from Phi Mu Foundation. It has contributed to me graduating debt-free, which will allow me to have a great deal more financial freedom once I start working after college without the burden of student loans. A significant percentage of college graduates do not enter the real world with such fortunate circumstances; the average student graduates with $37,172 in loans. Just as generous donors have supported my education, I hope to contribute to the education of future Phi Mu women.


Besides the monetary support of my education, the mentorship and leadership opportunities have allowed me to grow and develop a useful interpersonal skill set. My Phi Mu experience has truly set me up for success as I pursue my goal of obtaining a Master’s of Accountancy degree and becoming a Certified Public Accountant. More than this, I plan to show my appreciation for the women before me by continuing to support the Foundation as best I can just as they have for me and for so many other Phi Mu women, across the nation and across generations.

Tori Heavey is a member of the Kappa Chapter at the University of Tennessee-Knoxville and a member of the 2018-19 Collegiate Leadership Council.

Creating Lasting Relationships in Phi Mu

Being part of Phi Mu Foundation Collegiate Leadership Council has opened my eyes to how important Phi Mu Foundation is to our sisterhood. Before being selected to the CLC, I was aware of the basics about Phi Mu Foundation, but now I know so much more about how the Foundation allows for sisters to help and encourage other sisters.

Being part of the CLC has given me so many great opportunities to connect with sisters from around the country, as well as alumnae. One of my favorite aspects of the CLC is the Trustee mentor program. I was fortunate enough to be paired with Jen Wu as my Trustee mentor, and I always looked forward to our chats, emails, and texts. It was amazing to me that she would take time out of her busy schedule to make time to see how I was doing, in life and in Phi Mu. She encouraged me to run for Philanthropy chair and I knew if I ever needed her for anything, she would always be willing to help.

Thanks to the CLC, I have women like Jen to aspire to be more like as I continue my Phi Mu journey. I am so grateful for the way Jen has helped me along in my CLC experience. My Trustee mentor made me realize how important it is for Phi Mu women to continue to invest in the future generations of Phi Mu. I hope to one day be able to impact a future Phi Mu, the way Jen impacted me.

Caroline Freeman is a member of the Kappa Omicron Chapter at Georgia Southern University-Armstrong Campus and a member of the 2018-19 Collegiate Leadership Council.

Phi Mu: Creating Bonds that Last

When I first started at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, I was looking for my place on campus. I am from a small town in Virginia—I had just graduated high school with people I’d known since kindergarten.

I had always known I wanted to go through the Panhellenic recruitment process, but I wasn’t sure where I’d fit. It was through recruitment that I found the Gamma Lambda chapter of Phi Mu, and it felt like home. I found a house full of sisters who supported me, and they have been there for me through all of life’s moments since the start of college.

Phi Mu has inspired me to pursue various leadership positions. During my sophomore year, I was on my chapter’s exec board. In my junior year, I’ve had the honor of serving on the Collegiate Leadership Council for Phi Mu Foundation. I was also encouraged by my sisters to become my college’s Panhellenic President!

Serving as a member of the CLC has allowed me to work with my Trustee mentor, Danita Morgan. She is an alumna of my chapter, and she’s also one of my mom’s sorority sisters! I am a legacy of the Gamma Lambda chapter, and Danita and my mom were members at the same time. This opportunity has shown me the strength of the bonds within Phi Mu.

Phi Mu Foundation creates opportunities like these for women across the country. I am proud to be a member of a chapter that has 100% participation in the yearly M3 campaign, as the Phi Mu Foundation has such an impact in so many women’s lives. Giving back to the Foundation allows for this impact to continue. I simply could not imagine my college experience without Phi Mu, and I look forward to continuing my involvement with the Phi Mu Foundation when I become an alumna.

Hayley Boland is an alumna member of the Gamma Lambda Chapter at University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill and a member of the 2018-19 Phi Mu Foundation Collegiate Leadership Council. 

Meet Paula Buchanan, Delta

When Paula Buchanan left home to head to New Orleans to attend Tulane University, she didn’t have her sights set on pledging a sorority. A budding biology and history major, Paula was excited to begin her studies at Tulane after being recruited by colleges and universities from across the country based on her rigorous academic record in high school. But after just a year at Tulane, Paula met a few women through mutual friends that piqued her interest in sorority life. They were members of Phi Mu, and they invited her to join them back at the Delta Chapter house to learn more about their sisterhood. After that initial visit, it didn’t take long for Paula to realize what she had been missing. The women in Phi Mu provided her with a group of sisters who became part of her support system in New Orleans. Those early friendships she had made with Phi Mu friends ended up changing Paula’s trajectory at Tulane, and she became a Phi Mu member later that semester.

To honor her Phi Mu experience and the lasting friendships she made while at Tulane, Paula made a planned gift to the Foundation that she hopes will lift up another woman along her Phi Mu journey.

“In my family, we were raised to always give back to the communities where we lived, worked and went to school. I was lucky enough to have supportive parents who helped provide me with a pathway toward success, but I recognize not everyone is that fortunate. If I can help just one woman be successful while pursuing their education with my planned gift, then I will feel as though my Phi Mu experience has come full circle.”

If you would like to join women just like Paula and learn more about leaving a planned gift to Phi Mu Foundation, please contact Director of Major Gifts Mandi Young at myoung@phimu.org.