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#MeetTheMus: Trustee Jen Free, Kappa Nu

We’re launching a multi-part series this summer called #MeetTheMus, where we’ll introduce one of our Phi Mu Foundation Trustees each week, and give you an inside peek at what drives their passion for the lifetime development of Phi Mu women!

Our Trustee spotlight for this week is Jen Free!

What made your collegiate Phi Mu experience special?

My chapter sisters. They are crazy competitive. Our chapter had to win everything all the time – we won the Carnation Cup twice! My sisters are also sympathetic. They know what you need before you do. A member was never alone. Playing softball sometimes caused me to miss events/practices/socials, but my chapter sisters held me accountable to be the best I could be and filled me in on the what happens. Even when I failed, they picked me up and loved me. They saw things in me that I did not see in myself.

What (or who) influenced you to give back to Phi Mu as an alumnae volunteer?

When I was my chapter’s Membership Director, I attended Leadership Conference in New Orleans. I was in awe of the “adults” who were there because of their connection with Phi Mu not because they “had” to be there. I will never forget Kathy Williams running around the room yelling “I am.” The audience had to reply “Proud to be a Phi Mu” to her satisfaction. We did it a million times that weekend. Even the “adults” were screaming, “Proud to be a Phi Mu.” I wanted to be like those women. They were encouraging, enthusiastic, welcoming, and . . . a little crazy. They loved Phi Mu and her members. They wanted Phi Mu to be successful, (No. 1 among its peers like it is now!)

And then there is Pam Wadsworth. Pam is my Phi Mu idol. She is a wealth of knowledge, and not just Phi Mu knowledge! She has given of her time, talents, and treasures since her beginning in Phi Mu. Despite being from a closed chapter, she knew the importance of continuing to dedicate herself to both the Fraternity and the Foundation. She makes you want to do more.

What legacy do you hope to leave for Phi Mu through your work with the Foundation?

I hope that sisters will see me for who I really am. Someone who will push you and challenge you to be your best. Someone who will be your biggest cheerleader and supporter. Someone who will be available for a long rant about that stupid thing that happened to make you cry. Someone who wants all Phi Mus to receive a scholarship because college is crazy expensive. Someone who can make with laugh with a story about one of my criminal clients. Someone who will pop in when you least expect it. Someone who can remember your querks/dislikes.

How has your journey in Phi Mu impacted the woman that you are today?

Because of my Phi Mu sisters I challenge myself to get out of my comfort zone and try new things. I’m really not a great speaker, I flub my words and repeat way too much. But, my sisters have made me work on that. If I make a mistake, I learn from it and think how would this Phi Mu sister have handled that situation. I’m a better listener because of my sisters.

What would you tell a young alumna about why she should invest with the Foundation?

Why wouldn’t you invest in the greatest organization ever! We are amazing, fabulous women who love like nothing else. We strive for success. We encourage our sisters to be anything and everything they want to be. We have a blast when we are together. We have made tremendous strides in the Greek world. Giving to the Foundation insures that your Phi Mu legacy continues on forever.

What is your favorite song on the radio right now?

I don’t listen to the radio but I can’t workout without listening to, “Get Your Freak On” by Missy Elliott!

What book is on your summer reading list?

All the Missing Girls by Megan Miranda

What is your favorite Phi Mu tradition?

Singing “Linger” at a Phi Mu wedding

#MeetTheMus: Trustee Robin White Fanning, Beta Iota

We’re launching a multi-part series this summer called #MeetTheMus, where we’ll introduce one of our Phi Mu Foundation Trustees each week, and give you an inside peek at what drives their passion for the lifetime development of Phi Mu women.

Our Trustee spotlight for this week is Past National President and current Trustee Robin White Fanning.

What made your collegiate Phi Mu experience special?

My collegiate experience was special because my closest friends and I were able to select a new sorority to bring to our campus, and that was Phi Mu! I was a charter member of my chapter (Beta Iota) and got to meet some great Phi Mu volunteers – Beth Maxson Monnin, Rho, who was my chapter consultant; Mary Raye Casper, Gamma Lambda; Clarice Shephard, Beta Zeta.

I have to say that my favorite Phi Mu job ever was serving as Chapter Adviser for Rho Beta at the University of Michigan-Dearborn. It was then that I met Mary Jane Johnson, Gamma Delta. She has been my mentor since I aspired to be Vice President Collegiate Operations and was lucky enough to serve in that role for three years. Then, I served as National President from 2006-2010. I loved being NP, and I will continue to serve our sisterhood with great love and pride.

What (or who) influenced you to give back to Phi Mu as an alumnae volunteer?

When my chapter was installed, there were alumnae initiates recruited by Ada Henry, Rho – Laurie Cappello and Audrey Linden – who served as two of our advisers. Laurie, Audrey and Ellie Rupp, Sigma, spent many hours assisting our chapter and helping us to be successful in the Clarkson community. Their kindness and support was an example that I knew I wanted to follow and continue in a lifelong experience.

How has your journey in Phi Mu impacted the woman that you are today?

There is no doubt that I am the person I am today because of Phi Mu. I never would have met my husband during my college years had I not been Greek. The collegiate Greek experience had a profound effect on our lives. We are better leaders in our community and church and better business professionals because of our Greek experience. If you think about it, life is a big recruitment party! We impact and influence others through networking, and being Greek surely helped us to begin to hone this skill.

What legacy do you hope to leave for Phi Mu through your work with the Foundation?

I hope that I can inspire others to develop a habit of giving. We truly make a difference in the lives of our members through scholarships, leadership programming, member assistance in times of distress, and in preserving our history to share with future generations. We are confident women leading in our communities and having an impact. Kindness is the most important trait we can share and through Phi Mu Foundation we benefit our sisters. We are privileged and it is our responsibility to support Phi Mu through our lifetimes.

What would you tell a young alumna about why she should invest with the Foundation?

I would advise a young alumna to invest in Phi Mu Foundation because she would be enabling other sisters to have the same opportunities that she has had and more. We “play it forward” and that is so much more than simply buying a cup of coffee for the next in line. We should play our experience forward investing in it and improving upon it. That is our obligation to this sisterhood.

What is your favorite song on the radio right now?

I can’t pick one! The Message and Beatles channel are my favorites on Sirius radio. I like pop and country music and Broadway soundtracks. The latest – Hamilton!

What book is on your summer reading list?

I have many books and read many at once. Recently I binge watched “Thirteen Reasons Why” and started the book on my last flight from HQ. I am an avid reader of many genres. It is important to me though to understand our students and women and the challenges we face.

What is your favorite Phi Mu tradition?

My favorite Phi Mu tradition is now Carnation Banquet! I always love the presentation of awards and then Darlene Reyes came along and makes it the event of the biennium, and I just find the whole evening so magical. Celebrating our sisterhood and our successes drives us to persevere and improve as we journey into the future.

Robin and her Alpha Chi Rho husband and were college sweethearts and have been married for 31 years. They have two adult sons, Mark and Ethan. Robin loves golden retrievers and has an almost 2-year-old golden pup named Sherman.