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Meet Danielle “Dani” Driscoll Andre, Zeta Iota

“After my family lost everything due to a serious flood in Grand Forks, ND, I wasn’t sure if I was going to find the money or the strength to finish up my last year of college. I knew I couldn’t ask my parents for money for school or Phi Mu when they were trying to rebuild their lives. But someone (I’m still not sure who) found it in their heart to nominate me for a grant from the Phi Mu Foundation Heart and Hand Fund, which helped pay for books and tuition for the fall semester.  That money gave me the strength to finish college on time, and I give to Phi Mu Foundation each year in honor of what they did for me.”

One of the most significant ways we are able to lend a helping hand to sisters is through the Leona Hughes Hughes Heart and Hand Fund and the Betty Wilkinson Emergency Fund. When you make a contribution to these funds, we are able to help women just like Danielle who have faced tragic and life-altering situations due to natural disasters, medical emergencies, or other unique circumstances. Consider making a gift today! 

In a Moment’s Notice, Everything Had Changed

For Karly Mizell, Alpha Epsilon, she had spent months dreaming about the exciting adventures she’d have during her first year after graduation from Florida State University. Ready to take on the real world, she landed a job with Young Life, a faith-based organization that she had been involved with for several years as a youth, and was thrilled for the opportunity to work and live at Young Life’s Frontier Ranch Camp in Buena Vista, Colorado.

Only after being in Colorado for a few short months, Karly lived through something she never expected – a fire that broke out in the Frontier Ranch Camp cabin that she shared with other Young Life employees. The fire started in the cabin’s chimney and Karly and her roommates had only minutes to grab what they could from their bedrooms and run out the front door. Everyone was able to escape without injury, but the personal belongings that they left behind were gone.

“Unfortunately, everything I owned inside the cabin was burned beyond recognition from the fire. All of my clothes, shoes, toiletries – everything was gone in just a moment’s notice, “said Karly. “All of a sudden, I was faced with having to find a place to stay and replacing everything I owned, while being thousands of miles from my family.”

Karly had heard of the Phi Mu Foundation Member Assistance Funds through her collegiate days and from her mother, Lori Desguin Mizell, Alpha Epsilon. Lori is a member of the Foundation’s Legacy League Giving Program and a longtime Phi Mu Fraternity volunteer and she knew that these funds existed for members who were facing difficult times.

“I had the opportunity to meet Leona Hughes Hughes, Delta, at Phi Mu National Convention, and I thought of her and the Heart and Hand Fund when we heard that it could be months before Young Life would be able to provide the employees any assistance,” said Lori. “To know that Karly would benefit from Leona’s generosity through the Foundation gave me and my family such peace during a really troubling time.”

Lori and Karly at Frontier Ranch Camp

The Leona Hughes Hughes Heart and Hand Fund is available for collegiate and alumnae members like Karly, who are facing emergency situations such as natural disasters, critical medical illnesses and other dire circumstances. The Foundation was able to send Karly a grant from the Leona Hughes Hughes Heart and Hand Fund to help her replace some of her belongings and work toward a fresh start following the fire.

“I will forever be thankful to Phi Mu Foundation and Leona Hughes Hughes for giving me the help I needed to rebuild some of my life after so much was lost in the fire,” said Karly. “Receiving this grant made me realize how impactful every single gift is to the Foundation and how amazing it is to know that sisters who don’t even know you are willing to give in your time of need.”

If you would like to make a gift to Phi Mu Foundation’s Member Assistance Funds to help women just like Karly, visit the Give Now page and select Leona Hughes Hughes Heart and Hand Fund or Betty Nell Wilkinson Emergency Fund from the drop-down menu.

Meet Heart & Hand Fund Recipient Jill Ellis, Kappa Pi

Little did I know when I pledged Phi Mu in the Fall of 1979 that all the years later my sisters would be lifelong friends and sustain me through the most difficult time of my life.  In September of 2018 at the tender age of 57, I became a bride for the first time.  The wedding was put together in exactly two weeks.  My husband had been diagnosed with liver cancer just six weeks prior and I was so blessed to have several of my Phi Mus sisters rearrange their schedules to share in the event!  Unfortunately, after that day things began to spiral downward.

My husband began chemotherapy and even though he was uncomfortable he remained stable.  However, in December I was unexpectedly laid off from my job.  Our primary concern was insurance since we didn’t want to experience any interruption of his care.  As you can imagine, even with COBRA this was quite expensive.  While we had savings, a cancer diagnosis can quickly drain your resources, especially if there is no more money coming in. He remained stable and I immediately began looking for another job.  However, in February we learned that in addition to liver cancer he also had colon cancer which would need surgery.  At this point, he was requiring quite a bit of care. At this time I began to realize even if I was able to get a job I didn’t know how I would be able to work and take care of him at the same time.

He was recovering nicely and remained stable, but after about six weeks while undergoing a routine procedure he suffered a stroke which left him paralyzed and in the hospital for the remaining 33 days of his life.  During this time, my Phi Mu sisters continued to support me in every way possible with prayers, calls, texts and one dear friend came and stayed with us the last week of my husband’s life so that I could go home and take a shower and rest.  When she arrived she brought a card with a substantial financial gift from my Phi Mus sisters. I was shocked because many of the women listed I had not seen or kept in touch with over the years. The gift helped me get through the next month because I was in no way able to seek employment.

During this time a friend from another sorority asked me if Phi Mu had any kind of grant for people who were experiencing financial hardship.  This is when I became aware of the Leona Hughes Heart and Hand Fund.  I applied for assistance with my mortgage.  I was approved and thankful to receive the generous grant.  I never expected to find myself in a position where I would have to ask for this type of help, but I was treated with dignity and respect and the grant allowed me some time to make sure I found the right job.  I am pleased to say I did return to work in September 2019 and couldn’t be happier with my new job.  Thank you for your contribution to the Leona Hughes Heart and Hand Fund.  Your gift is making a difference in lives.  I know it did in mine.

You can lend a helping hand to sisters just like Jill with a gift to the Foundation’s Member Assistance Funds.  Click here to give today.