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#MeetTheMus: Trustee Sharon Staley, AX

We’re launching a multi-part series this summer called #MeetTheMus, where we’ll introduce one of our Phi Mu Foundation Trustees each week, and give you an inside peek at what drives their passion for the lifetime development of Phi Mu women.

Our Trustee spotlight for this week is Sharon Staley!

What made your collegiate Phi Mu experience special?

The camaraderie that we had as a chapter made my experience so special.  We weren’t a large chapter, but we were able to do big things – like host Bob Hope in Lubbock – because we believed in ourselves!

What (or who) influenced you to give back to Phi Mu as an alumnae volunteer?

My mother. She used to tell me that if you find something that you love and it gives you great joy, you should share it with everyone you can!

How has your journey in Phi Mu impacted the woman that you are today?

Phi Mu gave me the confidence that I could do anything I wanted to do. It was in Phi Mu that I learned to be a leader and work together as a team, and that has been invaluable to me.

What legacy do you hope to leave for Phi Mu through your work with the Foundation?

That we will have a strong Foundation to support Fraternity programs, and that we are able to provide scholarships to all women who need them.

What would you tell a young alumna about why she should invest with the Foundation?

It’s quite simple. I would remind them that part of our Creed reads to ‘lend to those less fortunate a helping hand.’

What is your favorite Phi Mu tradition?

I love the tradition of getting your Big/Little Sister and of course, National Convention!

What is your favorite song on the radio right now?

Happy by Pharrell

What book is on your summer reading list?

Any books by Danielle Steele

Sharon is an Interior Designer in Houston, Texas, and enjoys spending time with her five grandchildren, especially at “Camp GiGi” every summer! 

#MeetTheMus: Trustee Delicia Arnold, Kappa Omega

We’re launching a multi-part series this summer called #MeetTheMus, where we’ll introduce one of our Phi Mu Foundation Trustees each week, and give you an inside peek at what drives their passion for the lifetime development of Phi Mu women.

Our Trustee spotlight for this week is Delicia Arnold!

What made your collegiate Phi Mu experience special?

As an only child, I was so excited to finally have a bunch of sisters! To make it even better, my chapter always treated the Phis like queens and made us feel so special and welcome from moment one.  This made the bond within the entire chapter incredibly strong.

What (or who) influenced you to give back to Phi Mu as an alumnae volunteer?

I was somewhat thrust into a volunteer position at the University of Tennessee when I moved to Knoxville and got involved with the alumnae chapter to simply meet some people in my new town. However, as Chapter Adviser for Kappa chapter, I met and began to know Mary Young, Dr. Cathy Sessums, and Kathy Williams and my Phi Mu life was forever changed. These women became my dear friends, mentors and cheerleaders. In turn, they introduced me to many other incredible women that have also had very positive influences on me to continue to give back and ultimately led me down this road to serving as Trustee for Phi Mu Foundation.

How has your journey in Phi Mu impacted the woman that you are today?

It has built on and strengthened the values taught and instilled in me by my mom, and also as a Catholic. Phi Mu continues to encourage me to adapt to different people, different styles, and different issues. I believe that as long as you stay involved, Phi Mu is a life journey that continues to make all of us the best woman we can be.

What legacy do you hope to leave for Phi Mu through your work with the Foundation?

I hope to shape Phi Mu Foundation into something that is a natural part of the journey from beginning to end for every Phi Mu. We always say you only get out of Phi Mu what you put into it and I believe that this is true. If we all made continuous giving of time, treasure and talent part the journey, imagine the things we could do!  I want Phi Mu sisters to see and experience their dollars at work and to put the ‘fun’ in FoUNdation!

What would you tell a young alumna about why she should invest with the Foundation?

Giving to Phi Mu Foundation allows the Phi Mus after you to continue to enjoy the journey. Your contributions allow us to continue to help sisters in need, provide programming to develop great leaders and Phi Mu legends, provide scholarships for members to continue their education and preserve our history for all time. Continued giving to the organization that gives us so much allows Phi Mu and all of as members to make a mark on the world collectively.

What is your favorite Phi Mu tradition?

I always loved the candle lights for lavalieres, pins, and engagements. While serving as Chapter Adviser, I said something one day to the Kappa Chapter President about how much I loved the tradition … and right after I found out I was pregnant, she decided to do one for me! I was the first person to start it, so on the “Going to the Chapel” round, the candle went ALL the way around and when the last person handed it to me, I blew it out and said I’m pregnant with a girl! It was very special and thoughtful.

What is your favorite song on the radio right now?

Body like a Back Road by Sam Hunt

What book is on your summer reading list?

I am not a big reader, but I LOVE movies and just getting out and having fun!

Delicia is married to her husband John and has a daughter Abbey Clare.  They have four dogs – three Weimaraners and one Miniature Schnauzer.  She loves to play tennis, travel and be on the water … and most of her time is spent between family, being a taxi and mom to Abbey Clare, and Phi Mu!

Your Contributions at Work

Your contribution to Phi Mu Foundation is helping to shape chapter and campus leaders, and empowering women with the opportunity to pursue a higher education. Take a minute and see how funds from Phi Mu Foundation are making a positive impact on women across the country! 

#MeetTheMus: National President Beth Maxson Monnin, Rho

We’re launching a multi-part series this summer called #MeetTheMus, where we’ll introduce one of our Phi Mu Foundation Trustees each week, and give you an inside peek at what drives their passion for the lifetime development of Phi Mu women.

Our Trustee spotlight for this week is National President and Chairman of the Foundation Board of Trustees Beth Maxson Monnin!

What made your collegiate Phi Mu experience special?

It was the women in my chapter, Rho. We were SO fiercely proud of being members of Phi Mu, even on a small campus. At that time Hanover College had 1,000 students and 100 of us were Phi Mu! I remember enjoying everything that we did whether it was formal recruitment, supporting athletic teams, serenading (we really did sing back then!) or just being together in the Rho chapter house. The women of Rho gave me the foundation for my life-long love of Phi Mu Fraternity.

What (or who) influenced you to give back to Phi Mu as an alumnae volunteer?

Two women: Linda Litter (PNP) and Maureen Kerscher (Past Council Member). These two women, both from our Upsilon chapter at Ohio State, were my first real role models in Phi Mu. Linda was serving as National President when I was a Rho collegian, and her daughter Auna was in our chapter. We were in awe of Linda and the fact that we actually KNEW her. She had such a passion for Phi Mu and was very progressive and forward-thinking . The year I traveled as a Chapter Consultant, Maureen Kerscher was the Area Coordinator I worked directly with. She was married, had two young children, was pregnant with a third child and yet she had unlimited time for me and the chapters I worked with. I could depend on her, day or night to give me great advice and perspective. I remember at some point having this realization that both of these women were also my SISTERS! How lucky was I?

How has your journey in Phi Mu impacted the woman that you are today?

In every sense of the word. I work in an industry that is male-dominated. (Collegiate licensing-much work with college and university administrations and athletic departments). The communication skills and poise I developed as a sorority woman post-college are those I have employed when facing challenging situations. I definitely found my voice through my years as a member and leader of this organization.

What legacy do you hope to leave for Phi Mu through your work with the Foundation?

There are many alumna members of our organization who had an outstanding collegiate experience and have not thought of giving back to the Fraternity through the Foundation. I would like to continue to remind our alumnae, by my own example, that giving through the Foundation is not only the best means to impact young women (our current collegiate members) across the country but also to truly leave a lasting legacy through giving.

What would you tell a young alumna about why she should invest with the Foundation?

What a young alumna doesn’t necessarily know is that the demands of her time and talent are only going to be higher in terms of her everyday life. While I would love to think that every one of our young alumna members could serve on an advisory council or be a member of an alumnae chapter, the reality is not always so. The ONE WAY to consistently stay connected with Phi Mu is by giving through the Phi Mu Foundation. There is no amount-large or small – that does not ultimately have an impact upon our organization. Those dollars go towards scholarships, leadership development and programming, historical preservation and member assistance. Through donating, our young alumnae are able to give back to the organization that has helped form them as a confident young woman and member of society!

What is your favorite Phi Mu tradition?

Initiation and ritual-Our ritual brings us emotionally back to our founding.   The opportunity I have had through my role as National President to initiate many young women across the country ranks at the very top of my favorite Phi Mu memories.

What is your favorite song on the radio right now?

Castle on the Hill by Ed Sheeran.

What book is on your summer reading list?

I read to escape so I am downloading “Into the Water” by  Paula Hawkins. (Girl on the Train author)

What else do you want our members to know about you?

I love having two Phi Mu daughters and they have had two very different experiences in our organization.  Kara, our oldest daughter, had an outstanding collegiate experience at Case Western University as a member of our Delta Omega chapter and today serves as the Rho Kappa (Kent State) chapter adviser while working towards her PhD. Alisha on the other hand is an alumna initiate who also had the wonderful opportunity to work in our Headquarters as an intern. As a proud mother,  I have watched both of them evolve as confident young women through their Phi Mu experience.

I also love to read, and my husband and I enjoy walking several miles together each day. Our shared passion is the Victorian home we built in 1993/94 and we continue to search for those perfect pieces and details to  create a look of authenticity.  The biggest compliment we receive is when someone walks in our front door and cannot guess the age of the house.  I have to credit Jeff for finding the antique doors, chandeliers, woodwork, etc. that make the house truly feel like it could have been built in the late 1800’s.