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Meet Heart & Hand Fund Recipient Jill Ellis, Kappa Pi

Little did I know when I pledged Phi Mu in the Fall of 1979 that all the years later my sisters would be lifelong friends and sustain me through the most difficult time of my life.  In September of 2018 at the tender age of 57, I became a bride for the first time.  The wedding was put together in exactly two weeks.  My husband had been diagnosed with liver cancer just six weeks prior and I was so blessed to have several of my Phi Mus sisters rearrange their schedules to share in the event!  Unfortunately, after that day things began to spiral downward.

My husband began chemotherapy and even though he was uncomfortable he remained stable.  However, in December I was unexpectedly laid off from my job.  Our primary concern was insurance since we didn’t want to experience any interruption of his care.  As you can imagine, even with COBRA this was quite expensive.  While we had savings, a cancer diagnosis can quickly drain your resources, especially if there is no more money coming in. He remained stable and I immediately began looking for another job.  However, in February we learned that in addition to liver cancer he also had colon cancer which would need surgery.  At this point, he was requiring quite a bit of care. At this time I began to realize even if I was able to get a job I didn’t know how I would be able to work and take care of him at the same time.

He was recovering nicely and remained stable, but after about six weeks while undergoing a routine procedure he suffered a stroke which left him paralyzed and in the hospital for the remaining 33 days of his life.  During this time, my Phi Mu sisters continued to support me in every way possible with prayers, calls, texts and one dear friend came and stayed with us the last week of my husband’s life so that I could go home and take a shower and rest.  When she arrived she brought a card with a substantial financial gift from my Phi Mus sisters. I was shocked because many of the women listed I had not seen or kept in touch with over the years. The gift helped me get through the next month because I was in no way able to seek employment.

During this time a friend from another sorority asked me if Phi Mu had any kind of grant for people who were experiencing financial hardship.  This is when I became aware of the Leona Hughes Heart and Hand Fund.  I applied for assistance with my mortgage.  I was approved and thankful to receive the generous grant.  I never expected to find myself in a position where I would have to ask for this type of help, but I was treated with dignity and respect and the grant allowed me some time to make sure I found the right job.  I am pleased to say I did return to work in September 2019 and couldn’t be happier with my new job.  Thank you for your contribution to the Leona Hughes Heart and Hand Fund.  Your gift is making a difference in lives.  I know it did in mine.

You can lend a helping hand to sisters just like Jill with a gift to the Foundation’s Member Assistance Funds.  Click here to give today.

Annie Laurie Horsfall Fund in Honor of Delta Beta Chapter Funds Key Leadership and Educational Programming

Through a bequest from Past National Council Member Annie Laurie Horsfall, Alpha Beta, the Annie Laurie Horsfall Fund in Honor of the Delta Beta Chapter was established through Phi Mu Foundation. Annie Laurie was an initiated member of the Alpha Beta Chapter at the University of Arkansas and she later moved to Illinois where her husband was a professor at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign and she was a long-time adviser to the Delta Beta Chapter.

Annie Laurie Horsfall presenting an award at the 1954 Convention.

Earlier this year, the Annie Laurie Horsfall Fund in Honor of the Delta Beta Chapter helped fund two key leadership and educational programs through Phi Mu Fraternity: Behind Happy Faces: Mental Health Program for Collegians Series and the Alcohol Skills Training Program.

We are grateful for Annie Laurie’s generosity toward bringing programs like this to life!

Academic Scholarship Update

We received hundreds of academic scholarship applications last month and our independent volunteer committee is reviewing all of the applications now. Scoring of the applications should be finalized in May, and members who receive a Phi Mu Foundation Scholarship will be notified by early June.

Make sure you’re following us on social media so you can be amongst the first to know when we award Phi Mu Foundation Scholarships this summer! You can find us at @PhiMuFoundation on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.